Facilitator Resources
Survivors of Suicide Loss Support Group - Madison, NJ
Here is a collection of resources to assist suicide loss support group facilitators to run suicide survivor support groups. These guides provide instruction and plans to help start and run suicide support groups. They discuss many aspects required to make the groups successful and to allow the groups to run smoothly.
SURVIVOR OF SUICIDE LOSS FACILITATOR TRAINING
The Basics: Facilitating a Suicide Survivors Support Group
Resource: 96 page PDF
Summary: By Linda Flatt, Suicide Prevention Action Network
Preventing Suicide: How To Start A Survivors Group
Resource: 30 page PDF
Summary: World Health Organization, Department of Mental Health and Substance Abuse
Practice Handbook: Suicide Bereavement Support Group Handbook
Resource: 140 page PDF
Summary: Lifeline Australia
Towards Good Practice: Standards and Guidelines For Suicide Bereavement Support Groups
Resource: 20 page PDF
Summary: Lifeline Australia
Resource: 132 page PDF
Resource: The 2021 Edition is Available here
Summary: Friends For Survival
SOS Support Group Facilitator Handbook
Resource: 22 page pdf
Summary: Creating a Safe Place for Those Dealing with Suicide Loss
Survivors of Suicide A Support group Leader’s Handbook
Resource: 24 page PDF
Summary: This handbook reflects many years of experiences---both of survivors and of those who sought to help them through their tragedies. We would not have been able to create these guidelines without the contributions of the many friends and family members who joined “Survivors of Suicide” or “SOS” groups over these years.
Support Groups for Suicide Loss
Resource: 68 page pdf
Summary: Mental Health Foundation of New Zealand
Survivors of Suicide A Support Group Leader's Handbook
Resource: 23 page pdf
Summary: Star Center
Training Program: FACILITATING A SUICIDE BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT GROUP
Resource: Training Classes
Summary: American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
Facilitating Suicide Bereavement Support Groups For adults: training workshop series
Resource: Training Program ($)
Summary: Joanne L Harpel, Mphil, CT, JD suicide bereavement & Postvention specialist
Creating and Managing Virtual Suicide Bereavement Groups
Resource: 60 Min Video
Summary: Dr. Pamela Gabbay, Trainer, AFSP Suicide Bereavement Support Groups
Support Group Facilitation Guide
Resource: 46 page pdf
Summary: Mental Health America's Center for Peer Support
Recommended Guiding Principles for Effective Suicide Bereavement Support Groups
Resource: 5 page pdf
Summary: American Association of Suicidology
Resource: 60 page book
Summary: Alan D. Wolfelt, PhD
Group Facilitator Training Manual
Resource: 40 page Word Doc
Summary: Suicide Bereavement Support, Inc.
Safety Guidelines for Suicide Bereavement Support Groups
Resource: 1 page Word Doc
Summary: Suicide Bereavement Support, Inc.
Lessons Learned: Forty Years of Clinical Work With Suicide Loss Survivors
Resource: 9 page PDF
Summary: Medical journal article written for clinicians, but it has some excellent points for facilitators.
12 Types of Difficult Participants in Group and Team Coaching & How to Deal With Them
Resource: Article
Summary: The Coaching Tools Company
Resource: Website with Numerous Documents
Summary: The National Child Traumatic Stress Network
Responding to Grief,Trauma, and Distress After a Suicide: U.S. National Guidelines
Resource: 60 page PDF
Summary: Survivors of Suicide Loss Task Force
National Strategy for Suicide Prevention: Goals and Objectives for Action
Resource: 184 page PDF
Summary: US Surgeon General
Resource: 287 page PHd Thesis PDF
Summary: The purpose of the study was to understand how these individuals conceptualize their volunteer work and how their volunteerism may affect their own ongoing healing from the loss to suicide
Surviving After Suicide Loss: The Healing Potential of Suicide Survivor Support Groups
Resource: 20 page PDF
Summary: With participant observations from peer-facilitated suicide survivor support group meetings, collected over a four-year period, this article applies Shulman’s dynamics of mutual aid theory to explain how survivors’ healing is facilitated by support group participation. Shulman’s principles provide guidance on how survivors help and empower each other to deal with their grief in survivor support groups. Group facilitators can provide more clarity and direction to survivors with Shulman’s principles, better helping survivors to navigate the bewildering course of healing after suicide loss. We also suggest ways group facilitation knowledge—an essential resource for enhancing healing— can be more widely distributed.
What do Suicide Survivors Tell Us They Need? Results of a Pilot Study
Resource: 17 page PDF
Summary: In the present study we used a newly developed needs assessment survey to examine four areas of natural coping efforts: practical, psychological, and social difficulties; formal and informal sources of support; resources utilized in healing; and barriers to finding support since the loss
Using Google Tools For Support Groups
Google has a number of free tools that are helpful for a support group facilitators to use. There are a number of advantages of using Google tools:
By using a Google email or phone number, you can have multiple people access the incoming requests. This works well with co-facilitators.
By using a Google email or phone number, there is no need to change the contact info when a facilitator hands the group off to another facilitator
By not using your personal email of phone number you also avoid putting your personal information on the internet.
What are the Google Tools you can Use for a Support Group?
If you already have a Google account, you will want to create a new Google account to use just for the group. Create the new login as a personal account, not a business account. You will have to switch between the logins ( your existing personal gmail and the support group's ) so that you are using the right account to create the following features.
Create a new login with Google - Go to https://accounts.google.com/signup and create a free personal account Google. Choose a username that is similar to your groups name. in our case, we used sosmadisonnj@gmail.com
Setup a Gmail email account - Go to https://mail.google.com and adjust the settings so that you either pick up the email in the new gmail account, or have it forwarded to your personal email account or your other facilitators.
Setup a Google Voice Account - Go to https://voice.google.com/ to create a new voice telephone number for your area. You can also set it up to have a voice mail message or forward it to your or your co-facilitators personal numbers. You need to access the Google Voice number at least once every six months, or they will cancel it. They send you a reminder well in advance, so all you have to do is go and call it once to refresh it for the next 6 months if someone has not called in that time frame. For example we use (908) 605-0325 as our contact number on our various materials. Feel free to call it to listen to our voicemail message. You can also use Google Voice to call back the people who contact you if you don't want to share your personal number.
Setup a Google Contacts Address book - You can create a private address book with all of your groups contacts. You can store all of the email address, names, contact information, phone numbers and loss details in Google Contacts. Go to https://contacts.google.com/ to start to enter your contact information. You can also create mailing lists that you can use to mail out to the entire group.
Setup a Google Webpage - Go to http://sites.google.com/new and you can create your own website. It is a simple tool that requires no prior experience to develop a simple contact page. Our entire website is running on Google Sites. The name of the free website will be a long google address. To create a custom web address go to https://domains.google and register a suitable name for your groups's new webpage. The custom name registration will cost you $12 per year to maintain. For example we went with https://www.sosmadison.com
Setup a Google Calendar - You can create a public meeting calendar that you can share with members of your group. Go to https://calendar.google.com/ to create a public calendar.
Setup a Google Drive - You can store up to 15GB of data for free on a Google Cloud drive. This is a great place to store handouts, brochures, printouts, etc for your group. You can either make them private or you can share them with selected people. Go to http://drive.google.com/ to access your drive.
Other Useful Google Tools - There are many other free Google tools including:
Google Docs - A free word processor to develop new documents, similar to MS Word https://www.google.com/docs/
Google Sheets - A free spreadsheet tool useful for tracking various finances, meeting participants, etc. Similar to Excel https://www.google.com/sheets
Google Slides - Free software to make presentations, similar to MS Powerpoint https://www.google.com/slides/
Google Forms - Used to create polls, collect information from people and automatically put it into a spreadsheet https://www.google.com/forms/
Google Alerts - A free tool to allow automatic searches that are relevant for your area. You can set it up to search on terms related to suicide in your area to automatically send you an email if it finds new information on the internet. https://www.google.com/alerts
Setup a Google Analytics Account - You can track what pages on your website are visited and where the visitors are from. Go to https://www.google.com/analytics and create an account and link it to your website.
Setup a Google Search Account - You can find out what search terms people have looked at and what expressions have led them to your webpage. Go to https://search.google.com/search-console/ and setup an account
CONFERENCE CALL FOR FACILITATORS
AFSP hosts monthly conference calls for support group facilitators. These drop-in conference calls are open forums where facilitators can ask questions and learn from one another. Whether you are a new facilitator or have been running a group for years, the conference calls can help you be a more effective and creative facilitator. All facilitators are welcome.Monthly Conference Calls for Suicide Loss Support Group Facilitators
Resource: Conference Call
Summary: American Foundation for Suicide Prevention monthly call. The calls last about one hour and there is no charge to join. Facilitators are welcome to "drop in" on the calls whenever they like, whether for a few minutes or for the whole hour.
SUICIDE ATTEMPT SURVIVOR GROUP FACILITATORS
The Way Forward: Pathways to hope, recovery, and wellness with insights from lived experience
Resource: 114 page PDF
Summary: Suicide Attempt Survivors Task Force
Resource: Webpage
Summary: Here, you’ll find guidelines for creating a support group for attempt survivors or those with suicidal thinking, based on information from several groups in the U.S. and Canada. A list of all known support groups in both countries, plus Ireland and the UK, is at the end of this page.
Alternatives to Suicide Peer Support Webinar
Resource: 110 minute video
Summary: Alternatives to Suicide peer support groups exist because the opportunity to talk about feelings of hopelessness to empathic ears can decrease the inclination to act on suicidal feelings. This webinar will discuss the need for and development of peer-run support groups for people struggling with suicidal feelings and thoughts. Presenters: Janice Sorensen and Sean Donovan.
NEW JERSEY SPECIFIC SUICIDE INFORMATION
Here is a collection of information and reports specifically about suicide and suicide prevention efforts across New Jersey.
2014 Youth Suicide Report: A Data Overview Report on Youth Suicide in New Jersey
Resource: 2014 Report 20 page PDF
Resource: 2015 Report 21 page PDF
Resource: 2016 Report 27 page PDF
Resource: 2017 Report 16 page PDF
Summary:
New Jersey Youth Suicide Prevention Plan: 2011 – 2014
Resource: 17 page PDF
Summary:
New Jersey Adult Suicide Prevention Plan: 2014-2017
Resource: 30 page PDF
Summary:
Statistics on Suicide in New Jersey
Resource: Webpage
Summary:
New Jersey State Health Assessment Data
Resource: Webpage
Summary: Detailed Suicide Statistics by Municipality
Resource: 18 Page PDF
Summary: Suicide Statistics by NJ Department of Health
NEW JERSEY SPECIFIC SUICIDE PREVENTION RESOURCES
Resource: Website
Resource: 1-908-232-2880
Resource: Text "CWC" to 839863
Summary: New Jersey’s Caring and Crisis Hotline
Resource: Webpage
Summary:
Mental Health Association in New Jersey
Resource: Website
Summary:
Society For The Prevention Of Teen Suicide
Resource: Website
Resource: 17 minute video "Not My Kid"
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Resource: Website
Resource: 1-888-222-2228
Resource: Message Board
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Resource: Website
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Traumatic Loss Coalitions for Youth Program (TLC) at RUTGERS-University Behavioral Health Care
Resource: Website
Summary:
Psychiatric Emergency and Psychiatric Screening Services
The Psychiatric Emergency Screening Services program (PESS) provides crisis intervention services for residents, including screening for voluntary and involuntary hospitalization, mobile outreach, linkage to appropriate community resources, information and referrals. Counseling, emergency psychiatric evaluations and consultation services also are available.Morris County
Resource: Saint Clares Psychiatric Emergency Services
Resource: 24-hour hotline 1-973-625-0280
Resource: Morristown Memorial Psychiatric Emergency Services
Resource: 24 hour hotline 1-973-540-0100
Resource: Chilton Memorial Hospital PES
Resource: 24 hour hotline 1-973-831-5078
Resource: Somerset Medical Center PES
Resource: 24 hour hotline 1-908-526-4100
Resource: Newton Medical Center Psychiatric Emergency Services
Resource: Phone: 1-973-383-0973
Resource: Family Guidance Center of Warren County
Resource: 24 hour Hotline: 1-908-454-5141